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Is texting cheating? What the science says about infidelity in romantic relationships.
When most people think about cheating, they most often think about physical acts with another person. That is a clear, hard boundary in most romantic relationships that people know not to step beyond. Where boundaries get fuzzier is when other kinds of thoughts, feelings, or actions cross the line. With the vast majority of people disapproving of infidelity, finding it unforgivable (Gallop Poll, 2025), understanding where those boundaries are is important. Let's dig into what

Rachel Vanderbilt
7 days ago3 min read


Ask Dr. Rachel: My partner isn't capable of loving me, am I setting myself up for failure? (Relationship Advice)
I am seeing someone who has told me they don't have the capacity or capability to be in love with me. They have never been in love,...

Rachel Vanderbilt
Dec 27, 20234 min read


On the Myth of Love Languages
The love languages theory was proposed by Gary Chapman in his book published in 1992, titled, The Five Love Languages: How to Express...

Rachel Vanderbilt
Sep 26, 20237 min read
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