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Let's kill the situationship.
The idea of an in-between relationship, something more intimate than a friendship but less committed than a committed dating relationship has existed forever. But, in 2026, the situationship is something beyond an undefined, casual, or ambiguous relationship. It is is an abomination meant to allow people to fully avoid the friction or discomfort essential to the healthy functioning of close interpersonal relationships. Let me explain. Am I in a situationship or something else

Rachel Vanderbilt
Jul 185 min read


Does living together before marriage increase your risk of divorce?
This is one of the most pervasive statistical misunderstandings shared online today. The quick answer is no, it does not. You should live together with your partner before getting married. History of the Living Together Before Marriage Statistic Let's start by talking about the history of this statistic. In the 1980s researchers explored how people who lived together before marriage faired in their resulting marriages. They did find this behavior to be correlated with increas

Rachel Vanderbilt
Jan 4, 20245 min read
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